WHY YOU SHOULD GET A WEDDING CAKE (EVEN IF YOU’RE NOT A FAN)
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As you dive into the whirlwind of wedding planning, one of the decisions you'll likely face is whether or not to have a wedding cake. But what if you or your partner is not a fan of cake? Should you still consider having one? Absolutely! Here’s why!
1. Tradition and Symbolism
Wedding cakes have been a staple of weddings for centuries symbolizing unity, fertility, and the sweetness of marriage. While the tradition of the wedding cake has evolved over time, its significance remains deeply ingrained in our culture. By having a wedding cake at your celebration, you're honoring this timeless tradition and adding a touch of symbolism to your special day. Even if you're not particularly fond of cake, the act of cutting the cake together as a couple is a cherished ritual that marks the beginning of your new journey together as a married couple.
2. Visual Appeal and Decor
Beyond its symbolic significance, a wedding cake can also serve as a beautiful centerpiece and focal point of your reception décor. With countless designs, flavors, and styles to choose from, you can customize your wedding cake to complement your wedding theme, color scheme, and overall aesthetic. From elegant creations with delicate details to rustic naked cakes with fresh fruit, the possibilities are endless. Like your other decorative elements, the wedding cake is also a reflection of your personality and style. Even if you don't plan on indulging in the cake yourself, having a beautifully crafted cake can elevate the ambiance of your reception and delight your guests visually.
3. A Timeless Photo Opp
If serving cake at your wedding doesn’t appeal to you, you can still incorporate a wedding cake into your celebration while offering alternative dessert options. Consider serving a dessert buffet featuring a variety of sweets, such as cupcakes, cookies, pies, ice cream, churros, donuts, or even a decadent chocolate fountain. This way, you can satisfy everyone's sweet cravings and cater to different tastes and dietary preferences. You can still have the ceremonial cake cutting moment for tradition's sake with a smaller cutting cake just for the two of you and take advantage of a cute photo opp while your guests indulge in an assortment of dessert alternatives.
Pro Tip: Large cakes can be expensive. If cost is a factor, consider a small cutting cake for you to cut into during the wedding for your photo opp but have sheet cakes ready to cut and serve your guests. Sheet cakes come in a variety of sizes and are generally more cost effective. You can order them through your local grocery store or or bakery. Have your caterer pre-cut the cake and keep them on stand-by so they are ready to go as soon as dinner ends.
While opting for a wedding cake might seem unnecessary if you're not a fan of cake, its significance and visual appeal make it a worthwhile addition to your wedding celebration. Whether you choose to embrace tradition and elevate your visual aesthetic or simply have a small cutting cake and provide alternative dessert options, a wedding cake can play a meaningful role in creating lasting memories on your special day.
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